Going Deeper in “The Surprising Path to Joy”
Read the following slowly a few times:
Philippians 2:1-13; Mark 10:42–45; John 13:12–17; James 4:6–10
Going Deeper Questions:
1. In vs 1–2. What four experiences of the Christian life does Paul mention? Why might these be the foundation for Christian unity?
2. In vs 3 Paul says, “Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others.” What is the difference between genuine humility and simply thinking poorly of yourself?
3. Vs 4 says we should be concerned about the interests of others. How is that different from becoming a doormat who never has needs, boundaries, or opinions?
4. Read vs 5–8 slowly. Trace the “downward movement” of Jesus in these verses. What does Jesus willingly give up? Take on?
5. Why do you think Paul uses the story of Jesus to address disagreements and relationships within the church?
6. Now notice the change in verses 9–11. Who exalts Jesus? What does this suggest about the difference between exalting ourselves and allowing God to determine our worth?
7. Read verses 12–13. What do you think Paul means by “Work hard to show the results of your salvation”? How does verse 13 keep this from becoming a message of “try harder and be better”?
8. What is the difference between happiness and joy?
9. Where are you most tempted to “cling” to your rights, status, preferences, recognition, or need to be right?
10. If you truly adopted the attitude of Christ, what might change this week in your marriage, family, workplace, church, or friendships?
This Week’s Challenge
1. Look down: Notice someone whose needs you might normally overlook.
2. Step down: Deliberately give up the need to receive credit, recognition, or the last word.
3. Kneel down: Each morning pray: “Jesus, give me your attitude today. Show me where I can put someone else ahead of myself.”