Going Deeper in “Ego Problems”
Read the following a few times:
1 Co 1:18-31; Prov 16:18; Jer 9:23-24; James 4:6
Reflect on the following:
1. How does our culture usually define “winning” or being successful (grades, popularity, money, followers, athletic ability)? How is that different from what Paul describes as God’s wisdom?
2. The message of the cross is “foolish” to some. Why do you think surrender, self-denial, and grace offend human ego so deeply?
3. What kinds of “boasting” are most socially acceptable in our culture (education, politics, ministry success, morality, productivity)? Which ones do you personally feel tempted toward?
4. Paul points out that God did not choose many who were wise, powerful, or wealthy by worldly standards (vv. 26–27). How does this challenge assumptions we may carry into church leadership, ministry, or discipleship?
5. In what ways can religious faith itself become an ego project—a way to feel superior, correct, or “on the right side” rather than dependent on grace?
6. Paul emphasizes that salvation is entirely God’s doing (v. 30). Why is it so hard for humans to accept a faith where we don’t get credit for our own righteousness?
7. Where does comparison show up most strongly for you right now? How does comparison feed ego or shame?
Spiritual Challenges:
1. The Identity Audit - This week, take 10 quiet minutes and finish this sentence honestly: “I feel most valuable when I am __________.” Then pray: “Jesus, help me root my worth in You, not this.”
2. The Quiet Faith Practice - Do one Christ-shaped act this week with no visibility or payoff—no posting, no credit, no explanation.
3. The Grace-First Conversation - In one conversation this week (about work, politics, faith, or culture), resist the urge to prove you’re right or impressive. Practice listening first. Ask a genuine question. Stay curious.